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A tiny stain....

We as a family, fractious as can be, are gearing up for a memorial/celebration for my mother who passed away last summer. As such dad has shared a pile of photographs spanning our existence as a family...

Whew.

I'll be perfectly honest; I don't need this, don't know how I'm going to deal with it and don't think I have the emotional strength to pull it off but I haven't much choice.... So here we go.

Bear with me as some of this might spill out around here in an effort at catharsis.

This is us in KC ca 1975 or so. I was born there and to the best of my knowledge we never returned even for a visit after we moved away.
4 years ago

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urlnotfound pro 4 years ago
I believe in you.
drurystephanie 4 years ago
Sending love.
MackReed pro 4 years ago
LI'L STAIN!!! SO KYOOOOT!

Also, I lost both my folks (with whom I had much love and no hard static) a couple years ago.

It's big, no matter your family dynamic. Whatever you do is okay. There's no right way to get through it other than alive and a little older.
wjcstp pro 4 years ago
Hang in there
chauffi pro 4 years ago
I second what MackReed says, whatever you do is okay. Cheers,
the_adriator 4 years ago
I’m flying out on the 28th to go finally clean out my mom’s house and move my brother up to live with me. (My mom died a little over a year ago.) My husband isn’t coming because he’d be a drain rather than a support (plus we’ve been talking about splitting up lately), and I don’t even know how I’m going to make it.
roonie pro 4 years ago
@the_adriator Ouch, that's sad. Lot of hard work there. Stay strong.
You too @localstain . keep your chin up.
the_adriator 4 years ago
@roonie Thanks
jordanbrock pro 4 years ago
To both @localstain and @the_adriator ...

You're both strong, wonderful people. You will both do what you need to do to get through it, and (like @MackReed said) whatever that is, it's good.

Please use us for help if you need it. If you don't need it, power on!
mbjj pro 4 years ago
@the_adriator @localstain i wish you both faith in yourself <3
thelonius 4 years ago
none more 70s
tweedlydo pro 4 years ago
@localstain @the_adriator i hope that these moments provide some comfort and healing above the strain and emotional drain they present. you *are* strong, but you don’t have to be. i hope you can both be gentle with yourselves and find a way to muddle through. big warm hugs to you. we got you
MackReed pro 4 years ago
@the_adriator wishing you strength and peace.
Argie pro 4 years ago
@localstain we’re with ya for the entire ride brother :strength:

@the_adriator sending you strength and love also
Lockjaw pro 4 years ago
@the_adriator and @localstain, I love you guys. You will make it through this. We are here for you whenever.
jessamyn pro 4 years ago
@the_adriator and @localstain Awww that is a lot. Here to listen ro to strategize if that is helpful.

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