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I am just an advertisement, for a version of myself.

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Photo from Phish N2, Alpine Valley 2022.

I was inspired to finally post this as I had an unnervingly dystopian conversation this morning that has catapulted me from an unstable precipice into an even deeper psychic chasm than I am used to being exposed to…

First some details on the precipice and notes about that chasm and how it relates to the above photo and caption; apart from a handful of stellar moments, almost all musically adjacent, the last year+ of my life has been a less-than-elegant disaster.

In Oct of ’21 I was suspended from my job and at the end of Dec I was let go permanently. I haven’t worked in a little over 13 months and, as you might imagine, it’s taken a bit of a toll. Due to the vagaries of the Illinois UI/ID system it took me most of that time to get access to UI funds and in the meantime I had to cash out my meager pension and take out a loan from my old man. It hasn’t been too terrible, to be sure, I still have my home and my music but the well is nearly dry.

“There are lots of jobs!”

While yes, that’s true, and I have been looking for work, I am regularly confronted with the chasm I mentioned and the reality of the photo caption provided by Mr. Byrne; I am just an advertisement, for a version of myself. I no longer really have any faith that what I’m selling is worth the effort it takes to market… if that makes any sense…?

Also; Depression is a bitch.

There are a number of other things, catastrophic things, that have happened in the last ~72 hours, that have made an already deep hole darker but I don’t want this to become any more of a novel than it is so I’ll just give you this morning’s catapult into the abyss;



My uncle just turned 79. We don’t talk often, like really at all, but he is among the kindest and gentlest people you could hope to meet. Always has been. In his day he was also something of a Chicago design hotshot. In fact I walk past his work every day. He’s responsible for the iconic Oak Park village identity* and accompanying signage that’s everywhere in my town.

He’s been functionally retired for some time now. I mean, he’s 79. But a few weeks ago I got a call from him asking, in halting and sometimes confused language, if I could help him source a new Mac laptop and assist in transferring his old files and programs from his old machine, a MacBook Pro I serviced for him 11-odd years ago, onto the new one because he was going to be going back to work…

At 79 he was effectively skint and the only option for he and his wife to survive was for him to go back to work 3 days a week in a design house…

Again, he’s 79.

Legally blind.

And it might take him a moment or two to respond if you speak too quickly.

So he wanted to migrate a decade of unused design stuff to a new machine so he could work from home. I told him I was happy to help in any way I could and advised there might be some hurdles but I’d do everything I could to get him setup. Then I didn’t hear a word from him until today.

Plans changed. The people he was working for used PCs. They wouldn’t pay for a full work station to work from home so if he wanted access to new tech he’d have to come in to the office three days a week. No problem he said. He called me from that office today wondering if I could tutor him on Illustrator… Or if I couldn’t if I knew anyone who could…? He said he’d been trying to find someone for the last few weeks but all he could afford was $15/hr and anyone who would even talk to him wanted $50+…

He’s 79, legally blind and has gotten a job he can’t do to try to feed his family.


Maybe it was a trebuchet…


So, with all that in mind; if anyone out there in mltshp land knows a company that’s looking for a preternaturally loquacious, perpetually curious, incurable music nerd who never went to college, I’ll be doom-scrolling reddit, coaxing weird noises out of my pile of robots and continuing my pursuit of the perfect album.


Happy Thanksgiving Everyone.


Thank You for being here 🙏🏼.



*https://www.oak-park.us/your-gov...
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joost 2 years ago
Ach. That's so sad about your 79 yr old uncle. And then you yourself!
m3moellering 2 years ago
I cast my positive vibes into the aether towards you.
cottenwess 2 years ago
were there ever plans for a chicagoland get meetup?
wjcstp pro 2 years ago
Sorry to hear about the many months of troubles. I will definitely send anything I hear about that might fit your way. Also, that’s a great picture of you. Hang in there.
joost 2 years ago
I'm in Europe. So I'm afraid I don't have practical wisdom to offer. Since our societies are very very different.

I hope you find it in yourself to ignore the "I don't have any faith that what I’m selling is worth the effort it takes to market".
I understand it feels convincing. But it's not factually true. You're selling you. And take it from this random european: you _are_ worth it.
Go knocking on doors! I'm rooting for you.
mcmjolnir pro 2 years ago
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waa pro 2 years ago
Positive vibes, loads of them, is all I got. My deepest apologies. Please keep posting updates.
MackReed pro 2 years ago
Sending you solace, courage, and strength, B. From one job hunter to another, I'll be watching for you. This too, will pass.
samh pro 2 years ago
Thank you for coming back. Your time away has clearly been one of dread. Hopefully you get a shimmer or two (or five) of hope and happiness from these pages from time to time.
jer pro 2 years ago
Hang in there, m'man. These have been some tough times but I have confidence you're gonna punch your way through to the other side.
BoringPostcards pro 2 years ago
Big hugs to you, buddy. These are difficult times, and you and yours have been through a hell of a lot.
roonie pro 2 years ago
Best wishes from far away.
I hope the slope flattens out a little for you and yours.
BMK 2 years ago
Shakes tiny fist at the heavens on your behalf.
bjrn pro 2 years ago
I’m sorry things are so rough

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jessamyn pro 2 years ago
Hey Brady, I hear you. I don't want to be "that librarian" but might be worth seeing if his library has a Lynda.com (or whatever it is now) or Universal Class subscription which might have Illustrator tutorials. I know it's just one little part of a big messy thing that you're dealing with, feeling and managing, but maybe it will help. It's hard. The effort feels like too much. I hear you. We're here for you
~♥️~
jfaster pro 2 years ago
A few years ago I, too, took on a designer role I wasn't really qualified for. I got up to speed using courses on Skillshare, specifically courses by this guy who is an Adobe Certified Instructor: https://www.skillshare.com/user...
You get a brief free trial and then a $30ish/month subscription after, so maybe that will help your uncle.

Sending all the positive vibes your way my friend ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
shaniber pro 2 years ago
I’m glad you came back, Brady. :) I don’t have any lines on employment or illustrator training, but if I hear about anything I will send it your way.
whip 2 years ago
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jordanbrock pro 2 years ago
1) Sweet outfit.
2) Vibes ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
3) Power on 👊🏻
tweedlydo pro 2 years ago
you are so loved and appreciated, friend. depression is a bitch; please don’t give up hope. 💜💜💜💜
bencmeissner pro 2 years ago
Hang in there. You make our little corner of the internet a better place.
fins 2 years ago
Thinking of you and your uncle and all of the road ahead, may it be easier traveling than it first seems 🧡
Lockjaw pro 2 years ago
Brady, thank YOU for being here. MLTSHP just isn't the same when you're not around. I love your music and your stories. And I love you my friend.

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